Tip 2| Habits and Pet Peeves

They say you only truly know someone when you live with them…

I agree.

Battling what side to sleep on….

Keeping a trash can in the bathroom….

Room in the closet….

We all go through it at some point

  • Keep an open mind
  • Compromise because you love each other and want each other to feel comfortable
  • Communicate anything that bothers you and know when to give in a little

 

 

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Tip 1| Week of Moving in

1| Financial Stability

…is important when moving in.

And here is why:

  • Dual-income vs. Sole income. If you are currently unemployed or are studying towards your career you might be expecting for their to be one bread winner. Communication is key. There are a lot of dual-income households because in this day-in-age, one income is just not enough to live comfortably.

 

  • Separating bills before moving in. Agreeing on who is responsible for what bill eliminates awkward conversations and last minute scramming. Key word: Agreeing.

 

  • Who earns more? 50/50 is not always the best route to go. Typically, if someone is earning considerably more than another then they should try to pitch in a little more. Why? Because that way you both can have spending money and be able to save.

 

  • Joint accounts vs. Individual accounts. This is all a matter of opinion and which you prefer. Honestly, I would probably do both; keep an individual account but open a joint one. Humans go through many relationships throughout their lives so having your own account can help you have a net when worst case scenario happens.

 

  • Ways to save money!Image result for light bulb idea gif1. Changing to energy efficient light bulbs.2. Cooking/Meal Prepping

    3. Getting a water filter system (Ex. Brita)

    4. Building good habits ( Ex. Turning off the lights or eating leftovers first)

    5. Clip coupons/Use money savings apps

4 Drinks for the 4th of July

1. Red, White and Blue Punch

Ingredients:

  • Cranberry Juice Cocktail
  • Blueberry Pomegranate G2 Gatorade
  • Mandarin Orange Clear American Zero

For Directions Click the Link Above

 

 

Red, White and Blue Vodka Lemonade Slushies

2. Red, White & Blue Vodka 

 

Lemonade Slushies

Ingredients:

  • 3 full trays of ice from your freezer
  • 1 cup of cranberry juice
  • 1 cup of Blue Curacao
  • 1 cup vodka (plain or flavored – whatever you have on hand)
  • 1 cup of your favorite lemonade (I used a crystal light mix)

For Directions Click the Link Above

 

The Americano Cocktail recipe blends Campari with sweet vermouth and soda water.

3. Americano

Ingredients:

  • 1 1/2 ounces Campari
  • 1 1/2 ounces sweet vermouth
  • 3 ounces soda water

For Directions Click the Link Above

 

 

 

4.  Patriotic Panna Cotta Shooters

Ingredients:

  • 6 oz. grenadine syrup
  • 1/2 tsp. powdered gelatin
  • 1 tbsp. cold water
  • 1 cup lite coconut milk
  • 1/2 cup half and half
  • 3 tbsp.  sugar
  • 1 tsp. coconut extract
  • 3 oz. blue curaçao
  • Wilton gold star edible glitter, or other star-shaped sprinkles

For Directions Click the Link Above

Part 2| I love being a f$cking loner

Second part is being happy with being by yourself.

Hating problems that come with relationships is one thing…

but not baring being by yourself is another.

 

It leaves room for improvement, meditation, and surrounding yourself with things that actually make you happy…  like Netflix and ice cream.

As a loner, it’s great because I have all this time to focus on me. What makes me happy, what I’m good at, what will bring me a sense of fulfillment.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Part 1| I love being a f%cking loner

As a human I need interaction and I can’t help but interact with people in my daily life.

 

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But I’ve realized…..

I’d rather keep to myself.

Do I sound like an @sshole yet?

#1:  It’s a lot of drama, a lot of explaining, a lot of gossip, a lot of time-wasting, a lot of problems.

Oh my goodness, the list can go on and on. I haven’t been able to interact with a human pleasantly for more than a couple hours. If I see you once a year that’s great.

#2 : After spending a lot of time with someone, you tend to get under each other’s skin. Time apart is key with ANY relationship. It can be suffocating.

 

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