Lovely Life Reminder

Life Reminder:

Honestly, you are your worst enemy.

There is no one to blame for your decisions but yourself.

When there is something shi**y going on, don’t moan and groan about it. Take action!

Don’t close yourself from opportunities.


My Relatable Experience: You Totally Don’t Have to Read

> Lately, I’ve been feeling bored. I wish I had more people to talk to. But I also close myself to opportunities. I realize that I’m the reason I feel shi**y sometimes. I reject hangouts but then wish I could of gone out. Well that all is going to change. Truthfully, being in a new relationship has changed me a little bit and I feel like I should stay “myself”. My boyfriend is totally on board with that. But I’M the one stopping myself from getting out there. I’m young, I still have a lot to do and stuff to explore.



Life Goals (1/2) 2 min read

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Everybody has dreams and aspirations they wish to achieve. But dreams aren’t concrete and sometimes they seem so far out of reach you lose any motivation or slight interest you had in them. Every year for the past couple of years, I have been creating New Year’s Goals for myself to complete. Every year I get 90% of that list completed.

Goals can be Big or Small. It’s okay to have small goals and it’s okay to be proud of those too. But don’t forget to push yourself and climb higher. Here is my list I created for this year:

  • Go to California in the summer
  • Go to the gym
  • Go back to school
  • Get a tattoo (go to tattoo fair in August 13)
  • Plan for my 21st birthday (las vegas, six flags, new york)
  • Go to a drive-in movie theater (valentine’s day)
  • Go to a lighthouse
  • Go horseback riding
  • Hang out with Mike’s family more often and have him hangout with mine
  • Cook more
  • Play Guitar
  • Paintball fighting with friends
  • Camping
  • Go to Key West
  • Have two jobs
  • Put contacts on
  • Get a new purse
  • Dye my hair
  • Get the humidifier/incense
  • New clothes
  • Participate in an escape room (mike’s birthday)
  • Get an xbox one ($300)
  • Invest

Be Proud of the Little Ones. As you can see, there is already a few I have completed. There are a couple goals that seem very “normal” but in reality they are “attainable”. The purpose is not to discourage yourself. Scratching an idea off your list is like removing it from your head and now you no longer have to place extra ENERGY or EFFORT in dwelling on it.

> In my relationship, I realized I find it satisfying to see my man get to something that we have been thinking of for a while. For instance, we have been talking about getting him new pants for work. When we finally got them, I felt happy because now we no longer felt that need to get it done and he got what he wanted.

What’s up with the recipes?

Well this blog is not only to empower me but to empower you as well.

Learning new things and being opened to more is my goal and is something that helps you become better. Whether you are male or female.

Never say you don’t have time to learn new things. It doesn’t take long at all.

I will post many things but don’t be weirder out by the recipes. Lol

the boring stuff: buying a car

The guy from the dealership told me “this is the 2nd most important decision of your life”.

Great-.- I’m 19 and I feel like I’ve tackled down the hard stuff. Now I will be fearless lol.

My friend helped me weigh down the pros and cons. After days of contemplating and calculating, I’ve finally made my decision on what to do. I will pray about it tonight before I go to sleep. Wish me luck!

My goal is to have 3,000 in my savings by the end of this month. Maybe my trip to California will come true.

Is Wanting Control Bad?

I am a very anal person. I like organizing and planning and having everything go smoothly. These couple of weeks have been the hardest because I’ve had to live just day by day. But after this week I will be able to be productive and move forward. I guess that is why I am a business major. Am I the only person who sketches a plan of their day on paper so I can stay on top of things?

Going to church has taught me that ultimately God has control of my life but of course I can make my own decisions. But is it still okay to want control? I don’t like living day by day with nothing planned and nothing definite or not knowing what to expect for tomorrow.

I liked this quote

Anger Management

Hey Guys,

I don’t know why but lately I have been having some anger management problems.

I get extremely angry really easily and I always have the need to rant, even if it’s about nothing really significant.

I’m not sure what really spiked it inside me. Probably because my mom does that all the time and she comes to me to unload herself.

Since It is winter beak, I’ll spend more time publishing post and I’ll need to buy a foam board to post all the bible verses to read.

Does anyone have any suggestions?

The stress is getting to me

Hey guys, I’ve been kind of stressed out lately.

I actually decided to make this posts because I’m worrying too much about whether you guys will like my new posts.

This summer I was trying to get ahead and do volunteer hours, scholarship applications and study for the SAT/ACT Test.

I tried finding volunteer positions that dealt with psychology (my major). I tried Best Buddies, Feeding South Florida, and the Human Services Department of my city.

But this summer I realized that the harder I work the less likely it will happen which frustrates me. It makes me feel like I won’t be able to accomplish much in life.

Luckily, Feeding South Florida is easy-going and I am able to volunteer there.  

Another thing is that, I’m constantly being thrown comments that I won’t be able to find a job in Psychology. It troubles me to say that it might be kind of true. I’ve tried doing research but I feel like I’m still at square one. In the end of the day, I really like psychology…I like helping people emotionally and mentally.


But I feel really lost and I wish senior year could be so much easier.